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Romance scams

A scammer builds an online relationship over weeks on a dating app or social media, then invents a crisis - a medical bill, a stranded trip, a customs fee - and asks you to send money. They always have a reason never to meet or video-call.

Warning signs

  • Declares strong feelings very fast, but always avoids video calls or meeting.
  • Claims to be working abroad (military, oil rig, doctor on mission).
  • A sudden emergency requires money, gift cards or crypto.

Example

My love, I need your help. I am stranded abroad and cannot pay the hospital. Please send money for a flight so we can finally be together.

Made-up example - not a real message.

How to protect yourself

  1. 01Never send money or crypto to someone you have only met online.
  2. 02Reverse-image-search their photos; scammers reuse stolen pictures.
  3. 03Insist on a live video call early on.

Already caught out?

  1. 01Stop sending money and cut contact.
  2. 02Keep chat logs and report to the platform and police.

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